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Three Steps to a Magical Relationship

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This e-book takes you through three stages on the journey towards relationship renewal. We start with your grounding: who you are, what you need, your inner sovereignty. Then into curiosity & compassion where you start to see your partner and yourself with new eyes. And in the final stage you learn how to ask for what you need and negotiate your differences.

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Seeing from the Eye of the Storm: The secret to finding peace in difficult times

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"Seeing From the Eye of the Storm" offers you 7 secrets to finding peace & well-being. Includes the inside-out nature of reality, the Narrator mind, what lies behind the mask of our identity, and the blue sky of our innate mental wealth. Plus a bonus chapter on separate realities as a basis for love and understanding. See contents below. Sign up to receive the ebook as a pdf. Free (value £9.99)

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coming home: Beyond Boarding School Survival

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We are called boarding school survivors because we had something we had to survive. When we find ourselves in a challenging situation, we develop skills and strategies to keep us safe and help us survive. The problem is that these strategies continue to influence our behaviour many years later. This short guide will help you recognise and integrate these survival strategies - an important part of the healing process.

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The Survival Kit Workbook

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A short guide to identifying patterns of behaviour that you developed to keep you safe in childhood, and which are no longer serving you. Change your survival kit and move from survival to sovereignty. You can use your inner wisdom & creativity to create new ways of being, doing, thinking and feeling which will bring you more joy, love, fulfillment and self-acceptance than you could have dreamed of.

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ENOUGH: Six Secrets of Post-Traumatic Growth

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Trauma can be a springboard for personal growth. This e-book brings together six keys to post-traumatic growth. They can benefit anyone who has experienced trauma and wishes to turn it into an opportunity for healing and self-development. The underlying message of this short guide is that you are ENOUGH. The acronym ENOUGH gives us access to some important steps in the process of post-traumatic growth.

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A Guide to the Women's PowerTypes

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This BRAND NEW little e-book is the first step on the journey to understanding the Women’s PowerTypes, why so many women find them transformational and what they can do for you. Whether you are a professional, business owner, mother, activist, or team member. It’s a great companion to the Women’s PowerTypes Profile, which shows you your scores on the five PowerTypes. Combine the two to discover what you need to grow.

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The Boundaries Workbook, 2nd Edition

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This workbook guides you through a process of identifying your values, needs and the areas where you have difficulty saying "No" so that you can establish firmer boundaries. And it helps you discover how porous or rigid your psychological boundaries are.

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3 Steps for Overcoming Perfectionism

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In this guide to overcoming perfectionism, you will find out why perfectionism is so counter-productive for your work, relationships and health. And you will learn three steps to help you overcome it and get your life back.

Tools and Guides

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The Five Losing Strategies

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There are five strategies we tend to adopt in relationships, which simply don't work. This short guide to the five losing strategies will serve as a reminder to you about what to avoid if you want more peace, love and harmony with your partner.

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Moving from Complaint to Request

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In a relationship, asking for things can feel really vulnerable as we may be afraid of rejection or hearing a ‘No.’ So we tend to complain – or nag – instead, which rarely gets us what we want and pushes us apart. In the long run asking for things by means of a request is more relational and more likely to get you what you want. Download the pdf to find out more about how to move from complaint to request.

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Rules of Time Out

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Time Out is a way of putting the brakes on when you and your partner are caught up in emotionally destructive behaviour. It's effective when we do it properly. These 'rules' will help to ensure that you get it right.

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Information in the Feeling Daily Journal

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A reflection journal to help you pause, listen, and reconnect. Sometimes a feeling lingers — anxiety, sadness, frustration, numbness — and it doesn’t quite make sense. We try to ignore it, explain it away, or push through it. But what if the feeling is trying to tell you something? This free journal offers a simple way to pause and get curious - to notice what’s really going on beneath the surface, with kindness.

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A Guide to Grief After Suicide

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A two-page guide to coping with grief after bereavement by suicide

Videos & Podcast

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The Lockdown Videos: Coping During Covid-19

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This is a collection of short videos (3-4 minutes each) I made for Facebook during the lockdown 2020. I collected them here in one place so you can watch al of them or choose which ones you want to watch.

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Podcast: Introduction to the Inside-Out Nature of Things

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In this podcast I introduce the inside-out understanding of how our minds work, and the implications for stress and anxiety.